tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post7294045595948701233..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: Things I Found in Naomi Wolf's "Vagina"Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-23427825664270587672018-01-12T14:29:17.203-08:002018-01-12T14:29:17.203-08:00Caitlin, don't they all just have the most fan...Caitlin, don't they all just have the most fantastic titles?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-3558353871855991522017-06-06T15:14:34.733-07:002017-06-06T15:14:34.733-07:00Great book review, off to buy my copy. Thanks Jill...Great book review, off to buy my copy. Thanks Jill. Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13850441013380256202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-69658063780009497732017-05-13T16:45:39.700-07:002017-05-13T16:45:39.700-07:00Good on you Buck.
And Anonymous. THAT is an exce...Good on you Buck.<br /><br />And Anonymous. THAT is an excellent question. I will pose it to the void when I write a new damn post. Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-31516944463165415972017-04-29T18:47:24.946-07:002017-04-29T18:47:24.946-07:00Sorry Jill, this isn't strictly relevant, but ...Sorry Jill, this isn't strictly relevant, but I was wondering if you would consider doing a blog on sexual fantasies and how they can play into intercourse. Personally, I've recently tapped into a train of thought that really excites me, but it's not something I feel I can share with my partner. I worry that it disconnects me from him during sex (he doesn't know that my mind is elsewhere). This is causing me a lot of guilt and I feel like it's actually worsening our sex life. Is this a concern you've experienced? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-85782662397174599522017-04-28T17:58:02.040-07:002017-04-28T17:58:02.040-07:00Dang good post! This is great information (feel l...Dang good post! This is great information (feel like such a "guy" saying it that way) and it helps me get it. It is truly different for men and women and I for one will admit my understanding is more of the experiential rather than the empathetic persuasion. Thanks! Bucknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-76789906207073181232015-08-15T17:58:43.337-07:002015-08-15T17:58:43.337-07:00nice catch anonymous! kinda changes the whole mean...nice catch anonymous! kinda changes the whole meaning there, huh. in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-82622830833584023992015-08-14T08:55:15.959-07:002015-08-14T08:55:15.959-07:00"Many women learn to have scared spot orgasms..."Many women learn to have <b>scared</b> spot orgasms"????Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-63222619732227783142013-12-12T12:20:34.010-08:002013-12-12T12:20:34.010-08:00This reminded me of a movie I saw a while ago, Dia...This reminded me of a movie I saw a while ago, Diary of a Nymphomaniac. You should watch it (if you haven't already seen it of course). Assuming you have Amazon Prime, you can watch it on Amazon. It does have subtitles, but I really liked it. Can't Keep Anything to Myselfnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-46006397412718600352013-07-09T15:04:36.584-07:002013-07-09T15:04:36.584-07:00Thank you for this! Didn't want to wade throug...Thank you for this! Didn't want to wade through the book, but was hoping for a nice summary. Which has now been forwarded to DH with a succinct: "Read This. Really. Thank you."<br /><br />And thank you!Clea Simonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10810838253598050028noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-82594450072761547502013-07-05T12:00:53.514-07:002013-07-05T12:00:53.514-07:00Joe, thank you 3x as well. And yes, i second your...Joe, thank you 3x as well. And yes, i second your call for input.<br /><br />anonymous, hmmm, I'd like input on that as well. anyone?<br /><br />Spiffy, bleh. she's clearly unworthy.in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-28928072373207074682013-07-03T12:09:10.204-07:002013-07-03T12:09:10.204-07:00Thank you, thank you, thank you! Point number eigh...Thank you, thank you, thank you! Point number eight answers a question that my wife and I have been puzzling over for years! She likes G-spot stimulation, it gets her worked up, but she never knows what to DO with it. Now she can try just relaxing, losing herself in it...oh boy, fun times ahead.<br /><br />BTW - would be interested in hearing input from others on if this works for you.<br /><br />Also - Best Headline EVER!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05038919515702689732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-41191269446085589142013-06-29T01:28:12.724-07:002013-06-29T01:28:12.724-07:00We belong to a climbing gym, so I asked if she wan...We belong to a climbing gym, so I asked if she wanted to go climbing. Logical!<br /><br />She said no. :\Spiffy McBangnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-58058613829123347832013-06-27T20:17:46.593-07:002013-06-27T20:17:46.593-07:00Works for some women, not all. Some are not wired...Works for some women, not all. Some are not wired to be receptive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-20480004462453160342013-06-25T10:51:58.275-07:002013-06-25T10:51:58.275-07:00Some comments via Facebook:
From J: "It does...Some comments via Facebook:<br /><br />From J: "It doesn't sound like Naomi Wolf ever talks about the fact that people are animals. What about the virtues of behaving in ways that that would make critters on the Discovery Channel stop and stare in confusion? Gleefully horrific acts that destroy the ability of the rational mind to control anything?<br /><br />This romantic notion that a woman requires to be treated like something other than a plastic fuck doll has some merit. I get that. But the rest of this touchy feely stuff is just nonsense.<br /><br />Women want the same thing men want. The difference is that with men, we're ready to go when 2 (or sometimes just 1) of our 5 senses are triggered. With chicks you have to trigger 3 or sometimes 4 of them.<br /><br />And I like goal-oriented sex. It's one of Stephen Covey's habits of highly successful people."<br /><br />From B: "How long is all this suppose to take from beginning to ecstasy? it's seems time consuming...I have kids who may spring in without warning. Love the article, Jill."<br /><br />And my very favorite, from another J:<br />"I loved this so much I printed and pasted it in my diary."Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-71416474294465877572013-06-25T10:46:09.292-07:002013-06-25T10:46:09.292-07:00Caitlin, Fabulous! Go, girl, go!
Spiffy, ok, I...Caitlin, Fabulous! Go, girl, go!<br />Spiffy, ok, I've given you a few days, the deal with the gym chick...?<br />Anonymous, I would say so. Women often have "spectatoring" issues where they observe themselves or think about what they need to do next or whatever and take themselves out of the moment of just feeling and being. having this unrushed time w/ no demands/goals is conducive to finally relaxing and just going with it. so, in that sense, taking turns = good.<br />A Heron's View, yes. Lovely. in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-78843980194052867702013-06-25T04:01:37.985-07:002013-06-25T04:01:37.985-07:00There is a lot more involved in having mutually pl...There is a lot more involved in having mutually pleasurable sex than 'Wam bang thank you Mam !"<br />It needs to be treated like a journey through beautiful countryside by admiring the scenery, strolling through the woods, stroking the leaves gently, softly bathing in the waters before swimming rapidly to the bank.A Heron's Viewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06563706152609630696noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-23989566257444847012013-06-23T14:28:34.647-07:002013-06-23T14:28:34.647-07:00this sounds kind of passive on the (receiving) wom...this sounds kind of passive on the (receiving) woman's part: directed relaxation, slow stroking of the g-spot, etc. <br />As if the partners "take turns", such as it is: one giver and one receiver.<br />Is that an accurate interpretation?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-90671986479433999242013-06-22T00:00:56.637-07:002013-06-22T00:00:56.637-07:00Under the category of "just what do all these...Under the category of "just what do all these chemical effects do": When I started dating someone about a year and a half ago, after a couple of weeks she said she'd basically stopped smoking and drinking because she didn't feel like she needed it. Not completely, just down to "hardly", in her words.<br /><br />For all that, though, I have no idea if I was kind of naturally doing a lot of the things you've listed, or if she was just wired a little differently. I mean... we did spend a lot of time naked. I guess the whole take-your-time Tantric idea doesn't have to happen from the start, right? You can get some of it out of your systems first and then lounge around with the nice easy touches.<br /><br />...definitely asking that woman at the gym out tomorrow if I see her.Spiffy McBangnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-53726775281938414082013-06-21T17:18:01.295-07:002013-06-21T17:18:01.295-07:00Hey Jill your blog inspired me to write a new post...Hey Jill your blog inspired me to write a new post on being a powerful woman: http://cgrace4wellbeing.blogspot.co.nz/2013/06/how-to-change-world.html<br />basically have more soulful sex ;)caitlingracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112784046653134951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-3623460675646940362013-06-21T16:31:49.964-07:002013-06-21T16:31:49.964-07:00Yes, it sounds right. My Brazilian friends when ma...Yes, it sounds right. My Brazilian friends when making out, their guys always caressed & nursed at the women's breasts, just part of it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-78575951030232094552013-06-21T16:07:15.466-07:002013-06-21T16:07:15.466-07:00Caitin--I just forwarded this to Nicole Daedone. ...Caitin--I just forwarded this to Nicole Daedone. I totally agree. I went to one of her workshops and the guys (who were strangely handsome, btw) were really earnest and interested in learning how to properly touch a woman--like definitely willing to spend the extra time for the reward. in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-23642603261332447732013-06-21T16:02:23.307-07:002013-06-21T16:02:23.307-07:00Well now I have to go and get the book!
I've a...Well now I have to go and get the book!<br />I've always been fascinated by tantra but it just all seems to take so damn long. Then I found out about Nicole Daedone and Orgasmic Meditation and that is something I can totally get onboard with and so hubby and I have been having a ball trying it out. http://youtu.be/XZB3F9G4rawcaitlingracehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03112784046653134951noreply@blogger.com