tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post6771527956985088246..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: The Bad Dave, and Why Every Woman Needs One. Maybe.Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-9519375419957252592015-11-15T18:30:09.573-08:002015-11-15T18:30:09.573-08:00Found this as I needed to read about emotional mas...Found this as I needed to read about emotional masochism today. My bad-Dave (aka my "london lover") always makes me think of that experiment with the rats. Sadly, I'm STILL pushing that damn button, long after settling down. So I don't know how good for one having a mean bloke is... but certainly thoroughly addictive.Duskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-89491855892421084622010-10-13T10:13:18.582-07:002010-10-13T10:13:18.582-07:00Anonymous, I have been thinking about your analysi...Anonymous, I have been thinking about your analysis of being a bossy submissive. It seems a little Island of Misfit Toys-ish. "I'm a train with square wheels. I'm submissive, but bossy. We're all misfits!"<br /><br />Asha, I like your style, girl.<br /><br />Kelp10, thanks for admitting to the Bad Daveness in your life. I was feeling a little lonely out there spilling it for y'all.<br /><br />And, oh, dear Barreness, someday you shall tell the story of the grand makeover.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-72058257620622494862010-10-12T13:05:40.925-07:002010-10-12T13:05:40.925-07:00Um... just one?
Bad Daves have MADE me, Jill, and...Um... just one?<br /><br />Bad Daves have MADE me, Jill, and I'm ever so grateful.<br /><br />The best was reacquainting myself with a former BD apres Barreness "makeover" - five years later and infinitely hotter (confidence will do that for you) - and promptly using him for sex.<br /><br />And then stopping because, "Sorry Dave, it was just a bit...average and, well, I'm awful busy."<br /><br />Beautiful. dream.<br /><br />- B xHillshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17349758160798747129noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-864074220739448032010-10-12T11:21:00.524-07:002010-10-12T11:21:00.524-07:00I had one of these. My rebound from my first love ...I had one of these. My rebound from my first love and i met him when i went to college. He was rough, rugged, and could talk his way into panties. He came at a time in my life where it was good. He showed me the ropes and transitioned me into womanhood if you will. I eventually ended it because he had too many issues but, at that time in my life, he fit perfectly. I still talk to him to this day but there is no way i could ever be with him again although there was a large thrill factor when i did.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-77257620225668994992010-10-12T06:56:52.588-07:002010-10-12T06:56:52.588-07:00Oh, Bono...*eyes glaze over, Homer Simpson drool*
...Oh, Bono...*eyes glaze over, Homer Simpson drool*<br />I'm all for role-play. You can be the biggest dick you want in the bedroom but you had better have an "off" switch. Also, you got to be prepared to reverse and let me take the reins.Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-21096686778646206492010-10-11T16:00:07.401-07:002010-10-11T16:00:07.401-07:00Telling someone to boss you around is called "...Telling someone to boss you around is called "bottoming from the top," I think. The idea is that you enjoy playing the role of submissive, but you need things to go exactly as you've pictured them in your fantasy. In other words, your partner is playing the part of the dominant, but you're the director.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-67884006083734844952010-10-10T10:10:56.305-07:002010-10-10T10:10:56.305-07:00Ilyse,
a. word.
b. thanks for noticing. The pho...Ilyse, <br />a. word.<br />b. thanks for noticing. The photo is by Rudolf Koppitz, a Czech photographer. This piece is "Nude Study," from 1927. I adore his photos--the one that runs in the blog's header is his--and incredibly, they are in the public domain. (read more here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rudolf_Koppitz).Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-54301023516779921392010-10-10T07:50:02.722-07:002010-10-10T07:50:02.722-07:00I'd love to know the source of the beautiful p...I'd love to know the source of the beautiful photo, attribution please? thanksIlyse Kazarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10475964477205964706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-1142185525209560612010-10-10T07:49:23.492-07:002010-10-10T07:49:23.492-07:00of course, another answer might be in the form of ...of course, another answer might be in the form of this question: "Why is settling down seen as a given?"Ilyse Kazarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10475964477205964706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-33573295409710024412010-10-08T11:47:03.106-07:002010-10-08T11:47:03.106-07:00Simcha "Cupcake" Whitehall, btw, is the ...Simcha "Cupcake" Whitehall, btw, is the author of the Frisky article who, woefully, I neglected to mention above. She is also an excellent judge of sweet fucking imagery.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.com