tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post5200774546578765662..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: The Death of Passion and What the Hell to Do About It, According to People Who Think About Such ThingsJill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-79966357806463698622016-11-19T04:27:17.378-08:002016-11-19T04:27:17.378-08:00Oscars Wilde made a lot of comments satisfying ei...Oscars Wilde made a lot of comments satisfying either sex was probaby not his forteSam67https://www.blogger.com/profile/00744456911001613122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-6296641488956109632016-11-17T05:10:27.355-08:002016-11-17T05:10:27.355-08:00I loved this. Jewish sexual expertise has a lot go...I loved this. Jewish sexual expertise has a lot going for it, I think. Possibly the use of cockrings is beneficial, but, I dunno, never having had the courage to try one. John Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11647833154827132967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-85689419024685500592015-10-07T10:48:51.653-07:002015-10-07T10:48:51.653-07:00Sexual adventure. I've been with my husband f...Sexual adventure. I've been with my husband for 25 years, married for about 20. I'd say the last 5 years is the hottest sex we've had since those early years and he would agree. I think sometimes it is up to us as women to introduce the new stuff -- guys have some pretty crazy fantasies and I think they (sometimes rightly!) are afraid to introduce the things they want to do for fear that we'll say "yuck". It is rare to hear your man say "yuck" -- mine has drawn the line at pegging. :-) I brought in bondage, and then my husband introduced camming. We can't do either very often since we have busy lives with jobs and kids, but the few times we get to do it fuel the fantasies the rest of the time -- we dirty talk the shit out of those times! So a single sexual adventure even can fuel the passion for weeks and months until you can bring in another adventure. We also dirty talk each other outside of the bedroom -- talk about shit we want to do, even tho we are lucky to get sex in 1x/week. Keeping it hot is important. It can't all be about the kids and taking out the garbage -- you have to remind one another that you still fuck each other's brains out on the regular. And I have to credit my husband with making every sexual encounter an event -- he goes all out. I don't think he even knows how to do a quicky. Since women are usually the ones who lose passion first, I think it is up to men to go all out each and every time so that she is begging for more. At least, that's how it works for me! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-19191639694834954232015-10-04T11:29:04.855-07:002015-10-04T11:29:04.855-07:00Oh. My. God, Mind. Is. Blown.
Thank you sooooo m...Oh. My. God, Mind. Is. Blown. <br /><br />Thank you sooooo much for this. It'll take me a while to truly digest all this info but this is seriously the next-level consciousness behavior that I've been seeking. Who will be the lucky one to experiment with me? <br /><br />Absolutely LOVE your blog!!!! THANK YOU for all of it. Nicholenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-49600104672398808142015-10-03T18:16:56.883-07:002015-10-03T18:16:56.883-07:00My (now wife) and I read Esther Perel's book a...My (now wife) and I read Esther Perel's book and loved it. We had understood and enjoyed (maybe a little secretly) the edges of the "power" component of sex without really getting it. The book, I guess, gave us permission to explore that and allowed us to see each other as both erotic beings and tools to our own pleasure and romantic partners though not really at the same time. Sometimes we have loving romantic sex and others dominating "use the other" raw sex....or we get mixed up and it becomes a comedy... <br /><br />You don't hold down, spank, tease or call your partner/better-half/wife names...but you do your lover/object of desire. Conversely you don't make soup or surprise your sex object with a clean house or mowed lawn. The Perel book allowed me to be married to two different women and love both of them.. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-35576443929316801532015-10-03T15:35:57.273-07:002015-10-03T15:35:57.273-07:00Let me know if any of this works for you.
Okay. ...Let me know if any of this works for you.<br /><br />Okay. What works really well to keep the buzz alive is if the relationship is illicit....Donaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954459245160061762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-52101057917249834372015-10-03T15:29:18.012-07:002015-10-03T15:29:18.012-07:00Test postTest postDonaldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04954459245160061762noreply@blogger.com