tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post4706744938122672066..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: Female Hysteria and Creepy Old-Timey VibratorsJill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-70255888320025509242017-12-24T13:36:44.385-08:002017-12-24T13:36:44.385-08:00John, that my friend is a stellar comment.John, that my friend is a stellar comment.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-41196418992979248282017-12-21T17:19:24.094-08:002017-12-21T17:19:24.094-08:00Dropsy is by no means an old-timey disease like ch...Dropsy is by no means an old-timey disease like chlorosis (greensickness, something that women were thought to suffer from when they were virgins for too long), it's just an old-fashioned name for edema, or swelling in the legs (or other parts) due to fluid retention.John Cowanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11452247999156925669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-79257182242198591772016-06-02T15:50:24.698-07:002016-06-02T15:50:24.698-07:00John Vagabond, that is a lovely thing to say. tha...John Vagabond, that is a lovely thing to say. thank you xoxoin bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-59163567837907131042016-06-02T07:05:04.308-07:002016-06-02T07:05:04.308-07:00Oh, but how I wish I had known you in the primary ...Oh, but how I wish I had known you in the primary flush of youth, vigor and desire insatiable. How I would have learned from you.John Machttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11647833154827132967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-30106682005943629702012-10-23T14:39:17.350-07:002012-10-23T14:39:17.350-07:00although i've read several articles on this su...although i've read several articles on this subject (because, honestly, if you run across one, how can you NOT?) (why have I run across 3 or 4? no idea) (well, yes i do have an idea. whatever.), of course none made me almost pee my pants laughing out loud like a crazy person. thanks again my dear. :) -dr.a.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-83649984130573005612011-12-15T20:32:51.098-08:002011-12-15T20:32:51.098-08:00I got your steampunk cure for female hysteria righ...I got your steampunk cure for female hysteria right here:<br />http://whoresandhookers.blogspot.com/2011/12/playing-doctor.htmlwhoresandhookershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03473533135371051657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-90221465751603854362011-06-13T13:23:57.631-07:002011-06-13T13:23:57.631-07:00Victorians have an unfair reputation as being sexl...Victorians have an unfair reputation as being sexless and/or frigid. Yes, there were the "lie back and think of England" types, just as there are now; but there were also plenty of people, including many women, who enjoyed sex plenty. The perception that Victorian women were unaware of what was going on in their bloomers is inaccurate. In fact, many women in the Victorian era had what were referred to as "romantic friendships", which were passionate emotional relationships with other women, and they often crossed into being sexual. It was considered perfectly acceptable back then, and nobody (including husbands and families) thought anything of it. <br /><br />On a semi-related note, if you've never read any Victorian porn, you should; despite the use of ridiculous euphemisms, they often had an explicit frankness that can still be startling today. (If anyone's curious, I run a series called "Victorian Porn Fridays" where I occasionally post excerpts from Victorian-era porn. <a href="http://www.robinwolfe.com/category/victorian-porn-fridays/" rel="nofollow">Here's a link to the series.</a>) It may be somewhat eye-opening to read the descriptions of sex people were writing - and reading, and getting off to - back then. :)Robin Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12982904546065213043noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-58115805261383086662011-05-15T08:57:13.888-07:002011-05-15T08:57:13.888-07:00Is there a chance that, because sex was mostly of ...Is there a chance that, because sex was mostly of the "lie back and think of England" nature at that point (i.e. loveless, passionless, and primarily for baby-making; it WAS the Victorian era, after all), that MAYBE people didn't equate sex with female pleasure anyway?<br /><br />I mean, if sex was a wifely duty meant to fulfill her husband's needs and make babies, there's no way you could truly sort out whether or not <i>she</i> got much out of it. ... other than the occasional pregnancy. AND, as a result, "hysterical paroxysm" might very well be seen as entirely non-sexual, or removed-enough from sex that the average "obedient housewife" wouldn't be able to sort out <i>how</i> to achieve it via the marriage bed.alinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-61530954039887746912011-03-21T14:29:44.997-07:002011-03-21T14:29:44.997-07:00Let's see...
Anonymous, go to blogger.com and ...Let's see...<br />Anonymous, go to blogger.com and you can push a bunch of buttons and have yourself a blog in a hour or so. it's free which means they are probably mining my words to scientifically discern my interests so as better to sell me products. (she likes creepy vibes! more ads for creepy vibes!)<br />Haven, I hear you. I "like" my gyno but I don't want "want to have sex" with my gyno.<br />Katsidhe--well, send me the link once you do it. would love to see.<br />Ed--I am embarrassed that I had to google randy spears. just another unsavory link in my search history...<br />B--Well, honesty, are women going to be more happy to receive a vibrator or...an iron?<br />Enid-- check out the link to the good vibes vibrator museum. scary pix (but interesting!) i sense this is going to be in one of your future books...<br />Harleigh--sounds fascinating. if you have any suggested points of reference for that, please send them along.<br />Annah--well, if you do, feel free to buy it through my blog. a kind stranger bought some expensive thing this month and i about peed my pants with joy.<br />Leila--I know, the levels of people not noticing what was going on, how to do it at home, etc... is quite shocking. speaking of shocking, i'd rather do it with one of those creepy old vibes than tom cruise (cue rim shot)<br />ugh, it's 2:29, i need to stop writing about vibes and go pick up my kids from school. bye for now.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-14648887906012028462011-03-20T14:32:17.352-07:002011-03-20T14:32:17.352-07:00You've probably posted this somewhere before, ...You've probably posted this somewhere before, but how much does it cost you to maintain this blog, if anything? (I'm not really familiar with the way Blogspot works..)<br /><br />Anyway, you don't post very often but I LOVE your posts. This is the only sex-related blog I've found yet that is neither boring nor distastefully smutty. It's just very interesting and well-written. So thank you for gracing the internet with your fabulous blog. ;DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-84290515088034880072011-03-15T23:18:29.593-07:002011-03-15T23:18:29.593-07:00Way happy to be living in the 2000s. Wayyyyy happy...Way happy to be living in the 2000s. Wayyyyy happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-27753570429640770902011-03-13T07:28:57.945-07:002011-03-13T07:28:57.945-07:00Good blog! Is fantastic! I´m following you!
Pleas...Good blog! Is fantastic! I´m following you!<br /><br />Please, follow my blog:<br /><br />http://questoesdefutebol.blogspot.com/Olavo Marqueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16877947343364845350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-77698150454334657182011-03-12T12:49:04.396-08:002011-03-12T12:49:04.396-08:00I love this! I had learned about the origin of &q...I love this! I had learned about the origin of "hysteria" through an article of words with naughty origins, your post gave *so* much more brilliant information.<br /><br />I write a Steampunk column for another website, and I'm not sure if the editor will green light it since I'm supposed to "behave" myself there, but I'm totally going to do an article mentioning a steampunk vibrator now. Thank you so much for the inspiration, girlfriend.~<br /><br />~Kat<br />http://katsidhe.blogspot.comkatsidhehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09859540523817060764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-63144263951904732992011-03-11T13:29:36.601-08:002011-03-11T13:29:36.601-08:00"I find that I keep going back to the 19th ce..."I find that I keep going back to the 19th century doctor's office..."<br /><br />Do you picture Randy Spears as the doctor too, or is that just me?Ednoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-46470380633697872972011-03-10T03:21:51.314-08:002011-03-10T03:21:51.314-08:00"In fact, vibrators were one of the earliest ..."In fact, vibrators were one of the earliest electric home appliances invented, showing up ten years earlier than the vacuum cleaner or iron."<br /><br />You simply cannot conceive of how much joy that sentence has brought me.<br /><br />- B xThe Barrenesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00104951958986232787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-50544135044835351752011-03-08T22:07:32.043-08:002011-03-08T22:07:32.043-08:00OMG, where did you find the info? I'm definite...OMG, where did you find the info? I'm definitely in hysteria and I don't want any of these to come near me.<br /><br /><a href="http://steamydarcy.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow"> My Darcy Mutates</a>Enid Wilsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12248877161249788607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-74699925059896161372011-03-08T14:38:35.793-08:002011-03-08T14:38:35.793-08:00I found this reference in my undergrad in psych as...I found this reference in my undergrad in psych as well as my Masters work,--under ethics I believe. If you think this is interesting check out the activities of the first sex therapists *cough*. <br />Now just how naughty were our ancestors *winks*? I am trying to figure out how this could not be kinda sexy back then, when I love the idea now. "Hi there Doc.... I have a little itch I need taken care of... mind if i take off my clothes?" <br />Now how yummy would that be?HarleyQhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07945844080196372524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-25780452114712683512011-03-08T10:08:09.747-08:002011-03-08T10:08:09.747-08:00I love this!
You're fabulous for posting this...I love this!<br /><br />You're fabulous for posting this and teaching me something new and fabulous today. Now I kind of feel like buying a new vibrator.Annahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16488483947168168144noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-19695505054837875932011-03-07T17:00:27.022-08:002011-03-07T17:00:27.022-08:00After all those diagnostics, the doctors didn'...After all those diagnostics, the doctors didn't bother to inform husbands of how easily they can cure "female hysteria" themselves? Oh wait I forgot this is the 19th century. Men don't have to do shit, right? That's kinda sexy though. I can imagine an Eyes Wide Shut Tom Cruise curing my hysteria any day :) (post-katie holmes tom cruise just sucks)Leilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04490635107983302531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-10735397391466146942011-03-07T16:38:17.394-08:002011-03-07T16:38:17.394-08:00Very informative and a little scary indeed. Great ...Very informative and a little scary indeed. Great post!Random Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05494483624821880838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-88653292723508124322011-03-07T15:41:30.436-08:002011-03-07T15:41:30.436-08:00My Grandma totally has an antique vibrator.
She ...My Grandma totally has an antique vibrator. <br /><br />She also has a modern one. Curiosity grossed out the cat they say....<br /><br />I mean, good for her but that's just not what I want to picture my Grandma doing yaknowwhatI'msaying.CkretsGalorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05639299341765929305noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-32708326418621748062011-03-07T14:39:17.068-08:002011-03-07T14:39:17.068-08:00I don't know about you, but sometimes peeing o...I don't know about you, but sometimes peeing on a road trip feels damn near as good as an orgasm. <br /><br />This post is fascinating. Thank God for whomever invented batteries, though, cuz all that hand-crankin' looks exhausting - and you're right - no old-school electrical device is going down MY pants.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16941846553980567347noreply@blogger.com