tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post726646328604835091..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: Can the "Rule of Thumb" determine how you have an orgasm? Let's see!Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-37985703609503222872013-09-01T14:30:19.643-07:002013-09-01T14:30:19.643-07:001. more than an inch
2. Never
3. Nay1. more than an inch<br />2. Never<br />3. NayAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15412657867203536584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-59740674659454146852012-12-20T14:11:59.621-08:002012-12-20T14:11:59.621-08:00I have a penis and am writing specifically about #...I have a penis and am writing specifically about #3. I'm also an intimacy coach who works primarily with women.<br /><br />3. The majority of women I work with want a complex experience with a lot of sensual variety, particularly when it comes to their genitals. Pounding is something most people have seen in porn and a lot of people like it, but as noticed above, generally as part of a much broader experience.Willhttp://namingdesire.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-76221552429461671692012-11-10T17:06:34.630-08:002012-11-10T17:06:34.630-08:001. more than an inch
2. never
3. Yay
1. more than an inch<br />2. never<br />3. Yay<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-14725323425927803902012-10-27T10:50:09.306-07:002012-10-27T10:50:09.306-07:001. 2ish incches
2. Never
3. yessssss1. 2ish incches<br />2. Never<br />3. yessssssAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-52252678480376270332012-10-22T09:43:13.996-07:002012-10-22T09:43:13.996-07:001. About 1 & 1/2"
2. Pretty easily, and u...1. About 1 & 1/2"<br />2. Pretty easily, and usually multiple times. Though sometimes not at all<br />3. Heck YES, I love it! Though building up to it is always best<br />4. Haven't seen it and I don't have cableHannah Banananoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-10832997908609017242012-10-22T09:22:40.066-07:002012-10-22T09:22:40.066-07:001. About 1.5 inches
2. Very frequently
3. I'm ...1. About 1.5 inches<br />2. Very frequently<br />3. I'm a fan :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-68149776811912390862012-10-22T01:36:43.336-07:002012-10-22T01:36:43.336-07:001.about a inch
2.I can only orgasm through interco...1.about a inch<br />2.I can only orgasm through intercourse, clit stimulation is too intense<br />3. I love pounding hard anything less is boring I can't feel anything.Frizzynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-20638131679858055062012-10-21T23:26:24.737-07:002012-10-21T23:26:24.737-07:001. about 1.5 inch
2. easily
3. nay1. about 1.5 inch<br />2. easily<br />3. nayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-34105801332607719072012-10-21T19:42:00.601-07:002012-10-21T19:42:00.601-07:001. Probably less than an inch. Like tip of the thu...1. Probably less than an inch. Like tip of the thumb to first knuckle, and my hands are little.<br />2. Almost always. Though it's helpful to have already come a time or two, which also almost always happens.<br />3. Yeah, I like it. Maybe not all the time, but more often than not.<br />4. Obviously I'm not watching enough tv.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-7347663810395266242012-10-21T18:48:11.873-07:002012-10-21T18:48:11.873-07:001. just under an inch
2. oh yes, fantastically, bu...1. just under an inch<br />2. oh yes, fantastically, but it takes work<br />3. like it...occasionally love it. According to a few recent partners, I like it harder than most women. News to me.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-41790711418120072042012-10-21T18:29:15.542-07:002012-10-21T18:29:15.542-07:001 - probably nearer to 2 inches
2 - never (always ...1 - probably nearer to 2 inches<br />2 - never (always have to add my own helping hand)<br />3 - once in a blue moon by way of variation<br />4 - not available in NZ (boo hiss)<br /><br />Although, having said that I'd like to see such a show, by what you've described so far it sounds like Deuce Bigalow would be more of a worthwhile gigolo than those featured on the show. Why on earth would you PAY for a "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" experience?! You can have that with your average man for free, any day of the week. I'm pretty sure you might be on the right track with your throughts that the producers were just showing the sort of sex that they think women would want, based on the porn industry's idea of what good sex is.<br />If I were going to hire a gigolo, I'd want him to be Mr Charming-Perfection, who made me feel like a goddess, both in and out of bed. Porn-style sex isn't going to cut it.Mrs Jnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-88412622762006159362012-10-21T14:00:45.954-07:002012-10-21T14:00:45.954-07:001. probably an inch or so?
2. Depends what you mea...1. probably an inch or so?<br />2. Depends what you mean by "intercourse alone." If you mean "already been warmed up and maybe have had some orgasms via other means," then "always." If you mean "stick it in w/ nothing prior," then no, in part because age (post-menopause) requires it. <br />3. Sure, once in awhile.<br />4. Haven't seen it.<br /><br />As another point of information, because I can also ejaculate w/ a partner who knows how to make it happen, I asked my gyno about it. He drew a nifty diagram showing that the sweet spot, so to speak, is actually pretty large and quite a bit is/can be internal (kind of at the front of the vagina, so not likely to be reached and stimulated properly by a penis, at least not IME). So I'm guessing that the distribution of those nerve endings as well as the external clit part all contribute to whether one comes w/ fucking. (The internal stuff seems to contribute to general pleasure on my part, even if the ejaculation only happens w/ digital stimulation.)Naryahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05369280617520806983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-25981601190098463992012-10-21T13:19:17.873-07:002012-10-21T13:19:17.873-07:001. About two inches
2. Rarely and only if I'm ...1. About two inches<br />2. Rarely and only if I'm on top<br />3. Oh, hell yes!! But I don't come like this. Just enjoy it for the raw intensity and squishy noises. :)<br />4. I'm not much of a tv watcher but I may have to make an exception. ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-43813891506515770862012-10-21T09:13:42.012-07:002012-10-21T09:13:42.012-07:001. Just over an inch
2. Almost always
3. Oh yes! B...1. Just over an inch<br />2. Almost always<br />3. Oh yes! But only as part of a mixed tempo performance, wouldn't want it to be the whole thing.<br />4. You have shows about gigolos? Well lucky ol' you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-34885014254094655662012-10-21T06:00:10.214-07:002012-10-21T06:00:10.214-07:001. about an inch
2. always come easily, no fingers...1. about an inch<br />2. always come easily, no fingers or appliances needed (or even wanted, too distracting from the main event)<br />3. hate it, it can be painful<br />4. what is this 'reality tv' of which you speak?Naomihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15036719296868787428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-75377208953225347572012-10-21T00:30:20.700-07:002012-10-21T00:30:20.700-07:001. 1.5in
2. easily. multiple with an experienced ...1. 1.5in<br />2. easily. multiple with an experienced partner<br />3. great for about 30 seconds. then terrible.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-888723746913841812012-10-19T04:08:46.244-07:002012-10-19T04:08:46.244-07:001) way more than an inch. (3 maybe?)
2) never ever...1) way more than an inch. (3 maybe?)<br />2) never ever never.<br />3) love it even though it doesn't get me off. Like someone else mentioned, i can't hard fuck myself. :) though fingers and tongues are all good and what I need to come.<br />4) now I have to find this somewhere to watch, intrigued!Vikkihttp://www.herdesires.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-53963432532617034482012-10-18T20:59:20.698-07:002012-10-18T20:59:20.698-07:001) about an inch.
2) rather easily and usually mul...1) about an inch.<br />2) rather easily and usually multiple times<br />3) Rapid-fire fuck pounding--pretty much nay.<br />4) I don't watch much TV so I haven't seen the show. I'm sure they are all delicious.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-45717994060848924692012-10-18T20:52:56.861-07:002012-10-18T20:52:56.861-07:001. A wee bit more than an inch/thumb?
2. Not alway...1. A wee bit more than an inch/thumb?<br />2. Not always, but fairly frequently I guess compared to what other's are saying. <br />3. Maybe 50/50? Definitely depends on the mood. <br />4. Haven't seen it. Can't Keep Anything to Myselfnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-79028552639260852232012-10-18T20:09:45.989-07:002012-10-18T20:09:45.989-07:001. About inch and a half
2. HARD to with the fuck...1. About inch and a half <br />2. HARD to with the fuck pounding alone but it's still fun :^)<br />3. Again I enjoy the fuck-pounding but also very much enjoy the manual and oral stimulation as well!!<br />4. And LUV LUV LUV gigolos!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-72939065681221563432012-10-18T12:12:24.608-07:002012-10-18T12:12:24.608-07:00oops cut of the last post.
3. Dig the pounding eve...oops cut of the last post.<br />3. Dig the pounding even if it doesn't result in the big O<br />4. not familiar with the show.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-12753447362495453782012-10-18T12:11:14.823-07:002012-10-18T12:11:14.823-07:001. way more than an inch, probably nearer to 2
2. ...1. way more than an inch, probably nearer to 2<br />2. Never but close-best chance on top.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-87194214164914498592012-10-18T10:32:21.346-07:002012-10-18T10:32:21.346-07:00I'll tell you something, Zannie... coming to s...I'll tell you something, Zannie... coming to sites like this reminds me how lucky I was with her, and that I can't just walk into the next thing I have going and say, "Come and let me give you many, many orgasms, pun intended!" She just may not be built that way.<br /><br />May I suggest, as a measuring implement, one of those tape measures used to gather measurements for clothes? They're very flexible and, if I remember correctly, made from a soft material.Spiffy McBangnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-28640803041037098112012-10-18T09:26:35.843-07:002012-10-18T09:26:35.843-07:001. inch-ish.
2. maybe five times in my whole life....1. inch-ish.<br />2. maybe five times in my whole life. that is rounding up. it's biological tyranny I tell you! <br />3. agree with js above.<br />4. steven, but only because i am forcing myself to pick one.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-27665123597704817072012-10-18T09:22:07.669-07:002012-10-18T09:22:07.669-07:00Zannie Q, yes i'm afraid this is very very uns...Zannie Q, yes i'm afraid this is very very unsciencey. horrifically so. i'm just going to go with the thumb method and we'll just have to go with whatever shaky results we come up with. You know, like Monsanto with their research.in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.com