tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post6239699499698108194..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: Real Sex Lives: Nola, "I had an affair. Now what?"Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-23451033457052515112013-04-25T18:44:38.666-07:002013-04-25T18:44:38.666-07:00Jean, agreed. Glad we have a place to talk about i...Jean, agreed. Glad we have a place to talk about it.in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-70377635156717349712013-04-24T18:03:01.453-07:002013-04-24T18:03:01.453-07:00This one was bittersweet for me -- happy she found...This one was bittersweet for me -- happy she found some sexual excitement... sad it ended badly, and she decided to settle for the ok sex with her husband. I know it's a difficult choice to end any relationship, but the lack of passion and fulfillment rings sad. Hope she finds happiness in her life.Jeanhttp://ladyjwanderlust.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-21011990928443979762013-04-21T00:28:45.479-07:002013-04-21T00:28:45.479-07:00And another of us with a similar story. Thank you...And another of us with a similar story. Thank you anonymous-2. Beautiful words.<br /><br />Sharing these stories may not actually help us with the answers - ie what to do with this unsatisfied sexuality - but at least we can take comfort in knowing we are not alone in finding that even the most wonderful love relationship does not necessarily satisfy all of our emotional needs.Duskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-75359059609864583172013-04-20T11:31:57.192-07:002013-04-20T11:31:57.192-07:00Dusky--I am still so grateful to YOU for sharing y...Dusky--I am still so grateful to YOU for sharing your (so damn well written) story a few months back.<br />Anonymous--And that is a beautiful and heartbreaking comment as well. Sending you love.in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-10746965670190267652013-04-20T09:07:27.615-07:002013-04-20T09:07:27.615-07:00What a beautiful and heartbreaking story, Nola. Yo...What a beautiful and heartbreaking story, Nola. You just told my story almost detail for detail. Non instigating husband, meeting an old lover, hurtful ending...all of it.<br /><br />My heart is both heavy for my lover, now gone, and grateful for the enduring kind of love that comes from a long-term marriage.<br /><br />I am not sure where I'm going next with the discovery of my reawakened sexuality. I just know I cannot let it whither unattended. A very important part of me was dying more than I realized until he came along and sparked my libido back to life. 'tis a quandary...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-39464874264242167812013-04-17T22:28:55.854-07:002013-04-17T22:28:55.854-07:00Agree with anonymous, so important to share these ...Agree with anonymous, so important to share these stories for those of us who feel the same. Thank you Nola.<br /><br />This I particularly loved and have felt EXACTLY:<br /><br />"I wanted someone to appreciate the particular curve of my hip and the way my nipples poked out through my shirt. I wanted to be kissed well and hotly desired. I felt like my body and sexuality were going to waste."<br /><br />I have no answer to the question "now what?"... I'm still searching for that answer myself.Duskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-61528094472827351412013-04-17T10:23:19.972-07:002013-04-17T10:23:19.972-07:00Can't Keep: New contest idea? Write hot sex ...Can't Keep: New contest idea? Write hot sex scene involving unhot word--like rutabaga or chicken nuggets or...?<br />Anonymous: Glad you liked. That's the whole point around here.<br />Cagey-C: Agreed. Lucky to have such brave sharers and always looking for more... in bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-6999399593642816362013-04-17T07:33:52.213-07:002013-04-17T07:33:52.213-07:00This is very...bittersweet. Melancholy and lovely ...This is very...bittersweet. Melancholy and lovely at the same time. The affair itself sounds like it involved a powerful awakening to some new self-knowledge. It sounds like husband is fairly game to please, as much as he is able, but may have a lower libido than Nola; I wonder if it might be worth a little counseling to explore that further and work out ways to negotiate it. Anyhow, this was exquisitely written.Cagey-Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06336508567944952383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-2786095792177805512013-04-17T04:27:09.925-07:002013-04-17T04:27:09.925-07:00Great story! I always love to read other people...Great story! I always love to read other people's experiences in having an affair. There are those that will never understand having an affair, but there are some of us who do understand and need to know that there are others out there.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-46779970408327322772013-04-16T20:28:42.820-07:002013-04-16T20:28:42.820-07:00Wow. Never thought sex that was described as "...Wow. Never thought sex that was described as "squishy" could sound so hot. I would now like to have some of this squishy sex. Can't keep anything to myselfnoreply@blogger.com