tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post5057507183368014931..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: Dr. Andrea and the Mystery of the Possibly Missing Clit*Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-2837555895748081912012-11-17T19:26:15.507-08:002012-11-17T19:26:15.507-08:00She doesn't like vibrators. Too weird. And I...She doesn't like vibrators. Too weird. And I have that book. We're ok, it's just that something is missing. Been that way since day one. Long story, but thanks.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-63197151353660636172012-11-15T10:44:39.174-08:002012-11-15T10:44:39.174-08:00What a strange story. Married 35 years, sex every ...What a strange story. Married 35 years, sex every week, only four or five orgasms for her, presumably every time for him. Seeing marriage counselors, and yet never a mention of vibrators. It's no crime not to have orgasms. My wife was about 40 when we married and had never had an orgasm, she said, although she loved sex, all the touching and cuddling. We bought a vibrator. Bingo. She had orgasms. She still can't get a Big O through digital, oral, or penile stimulation (my first wife had them that way quite easily). The vibrations maybe just aren't fast enough or intense enough for her, but a minute or two with a vibrator does it. Using a mechanical enhancement also is not a crime. You can walk to the store or you can drive. Point is, whatever works best for you. And yet, my wife is still quite happy to have sex without having an orgasm. An orgasm, she says, it is like the cherry on top of the sundae, but it is the ice cream that really satisfies her.dmnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-60019530751761774922012-11-15T08:02:05.970-08:002012-11-15T08:02:05.970-08:00I don't have anything useful to contribute her...I don't have anything useful to contribute here, but I did want to say that your image choice for this post is absolutely brilliant.Cagey-Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06336508567944952383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-21448431756297022502012-11-15T04:35:47.621-08:002012-11-15T04:35:47.621-08:00I'm loving this conversation...love talking ab...I'm loving this conversation...love talking about sex and am in the middle of a 30 day series on sexuality on my blog.<br /> Not that you asked, but I'd recommend hubby getting Ian Kerner's book, She Comes First. I'd also suggest taking a look at DodsonandRoss.com for wife to read about about her clitoris and self-stimulation....if she's interested. <br />Walker Thorntonhttp://awomanspage.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-65655208364337941332012-11-14T19:38:08.736-08:002012-11-14T19:38:08.736-08:00I recommend "The 5 Love Languages", as w...I recommend "The 5 Love Languages", as well. So make that three recommendations.just some galnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-38494416374193330962012-11-14T15:50:37.518-08:002012-11-14T15:50:37.518-08:00Thanks Anonymous. You are the second person to men...Thanks Anonymous. You are the second person to mention that book to me. Which is clearly a sign that two people have mentioned it to me. Or maybe that I should read it. Unclear with the whole signs thing.Jill Hamiltonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-13887791090166151882012-11-14T14:54:53.684-08:002012-11-14T14:54:53.684-08:00There's a great book called "the 5 love l...There's a great book called "the 5 love languages". After reading it & discovering what my love languages are, I discovered than when certain things are done and I feel emotionally connected & desired, my long dormant libido has gone into overdrive. What a happy surprise at 54 to discover that I'm more sexual than ever!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com