tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post1195373792064059419..comments2024-03-21T18:26:23.834-07:00Comments on In Bed With Married Women: "For purposes of example, this is the best fuck of my life"--Nicole Daedone in "On Fucking"Jill Hamiltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14989469118118455602noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-36403806077143012252019-12-14T10:40:16.276-08:002019-12-14T10:40:16.276-08:00Wow! Gulp! Thank you...Wow! Gulp! Thank you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-10391511794362546862016-01-26T11:32:15.020-08:002016-01-26T11:32:15.020-08:00The thing is
It is not about being manipulated or...The thing is <br />It is not about being manipulated or denied purposely.. It's simply the wait, the desire growing stronger within you..wanting what you might not get..<br /><br />I had magical sex in my relationship with a very caring, loving guy simply because we worked together for a while <br />I started developing a crush for him and and sexually i wanted him so bad.. We talked a bit, sometimes were being playful.. And oh god when he would touch me, even innocently, i was going crazy inside.. But i have a habit of playing it cool. While my body was boiling for him<br />Ended up seeing eachother after flirting through messaging and it was like fireworks<br />Because i had no clue i he would be interested in me<br /><br />And the sex never really lost its magic, not even when we were in relationship.. I have wanted it for so long that i could not get enough of him.. And the times after cuming it took a while for him to go again, i was going crazy within that half an hour or so of waiting<br />Guys dont have to deny you and manipulate you just to be cruel so then you enjoy it. Nice loving guys can make you feel like this too <br /><br />But its a lot about the situation that you are both placed in <br />I realised guys that are not so straightforward/ maybe more shy/ they play it cool.. Turn me on<br />Unfortunately most guys in nowadays society throw themselves at every girl they are attracted to because they are taught by the society that they should go get what they want or theyll miss out Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-27914002718025286972014-12-03T22:37:18.994-08:002014-12-03T22:37:18.994-08:00Anonymous, yeah, think I've known that guy, to...Anonymous, yeah, think I've known that guy, too. Love to you until the next one. xoin bed with married womenhttp://www.inbedwithmarriedwomen.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-24622087703027011692014-12-03T20:03:46.680-08:002014-12-03T20:03:46.680-08:00If I could just find someone to do this with. Unti...If I could just find someone to do this with. Until three weeks ago, I had a lover who did this for/to/with me. But it is ended. He is an outlier and I fear I will never again find another incredible, near perfect lover like him. :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-18527979249277957152012-03-19T04:34:17.348-07:002012-03-19T04:34:17.348-07:00I LOVE this post... some of her imagery is so perf...I LOVE this post... some of her imagery is so perfect. I had to return to it today after finding myself in quite a state. Specifically, for the first time in a while, I have found myself to be not only 'dripping', but also 'convex' as she describes. Yesterday my former, and hopefully (oh god please!) future lover wrote the most perfect things to me. He has put into my head the most vivid imagery of exactly how we will rekindle our former passion when we meet again, and I am still reeling from it. He destroyed all my fears and has overwhelmed me with desire. I feel giddy with joy, knowing that I will be in the hands of an expert lover, that I will have no choice but to submit to ultimate pleasure. I haven't even seen him and yet my body is electric with longing. This feeling has reminded me exactly why I MUST have this man again.<br /><br /> <br />And yes, he is a man with power over me who can do this to me. I don't think I'm capable of feeling this way with a kind man who loves me.Duskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-33065092542111864812012-03-18T19:44:26.565-07:002012-03-18T19:44:26.565-07:00I had to come back to this story today... after fi...I had to come back to this story today... after finding myself 'convex' last night. My heightened, mind-blowing encounters have likewise been with a man who denies me and has power over me. Yesterday he told me how we are going to find our former passion again when next we meet, and I am still reeling from the imagery. These are just from his words, reminding me that when I see him again I will be safely in the hands of an expert, and that I will have no choice but to submit to ultimate pleasure.Duskynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-2660555700605006992012-01-29T23:08:44.802-08:002012-01-29T23:08:44.802-08:00@ Jack, I never had decent sex at all until one ve...@ Jack, I never had decent sex at all until one very surprising and illuminative afternoon when I was 45. <br /><br />Since that day more than 10 years ago I've had about 15 lovers and largely fantastic sex, in the male version of what's described here. The key to it all, I found, is the patience, generosity, and touch to bring her to this point; and for her to do the same for you.<br /><br />It can get better. It can get better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-45765893575467742632012-01-28T14:55:34.667-08:002012-01-28T14:55:34.667-08:00Daedone is selling a product--I've read her bo...Daedone is selling a product--I've read her book. Believe her account if you will, but I would classify it as excellent erotic fiction. We all, I hope, have some magnificent sexual experiences. They often happen when we don't expect them, and don't happen when we do. I'm not sure OMing has anything to do with it. The problem with Daedone's story is that it projects this as a possible standard that people can reach all the time. That leads to Sad Jacks. Jack's not off, the expectations are.Deciduousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-31892288252552167602012-01-10T12:28:44.422-08:002012-01-10T12:28:44.422-08:00Just Jack--That is so completely tragic but at the...Just Jack--That is so completely tragic but at the same time I am marveling at how well you wrote it (which is not at all the point, but hey, nice job!). I am going to write about this soon. I think your situation is not at all uncommon.<br />Week Bi Week--well, if things get slow, bring on the weird imagery. love that stuff!<br />betty--lucky and rare.<br />Dan--of course you do, dear. of course you do.<br />Brent H--So interesting to think of these things. This just makes me feel more certain that there should be an International Body Switching Day so that one could slip into the body of the other gender to see what's what.<br />Anonymous: I'm going to one of her sessions this week. Will report on my findings. <br />Anonymous 2: I thought of this too and wondered if someone would bring it up. The role of power in passion is fascinating to me.<br />Red Shoes--Ah, "On Fucking" is but one of my oddly named files. <br />Can't Keep Anything--Hope your delicious torture pays off.in bed with married womenhttp://inbedwithmarriedwomen.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-349089176748351052012-01-05T21:49:50.893-08:002012-01-05T21:49:50.893-08:00Delicious. I'm hoping this long distance thing...Delicious. I'm hoping this long distance thing that I'm doing right now will have the same effect, but at least no one's to blame for the torture. Less than two weeks till we're reunited!Can't keep anything to myselfnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-40850003892225626332012-01-04T14:48:00.599-08:002012-01-04T14:48:00.599-08:00What a GREAT post...
I would love to see/read th...What a GREAT post... <br /><br />I would love to see/read the contents of that 'On Fucking' file... ;o)<br /><br />Just sayin'...<br /><br />~shoes~Red Shoeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01919277206516592912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-58274081476306642342012-01-04T07:49:54.766-08:002012-01-04T07:49:54.766-08:00I find her story about the "perfect storm of ...I find her story about the "perfect storm of sex" disturbing. Because it is about a quintessential dysfunctional relationship. And believe me, I'm an expert at them. The best sex I've had, like her, has come from men that manipulate me & deny me, until I am begging. And then I have mind blowing sex. Which is why I've long struggled with an addiction to narcissistic, abusive men. I would really love to hear a story about mind blowing sex with a caring, loving man.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-78209894457190929682012-01-03T23:33:37.829-08:002012-01-03T23:33:37.829-08:00This is a great post. I'm really curious now ...This is a great post. I'm really curious now about Daedone's book and blog. I'm not sure if I've ever had sex that had the richness of sensation that Daedone describes, but I quite like what I guess I might describe as her sexual aesthetic: long sessions that involve slowly racheting up one's partner's pleasure and desire. Those are a hell of a lot of fun.<br /><br />That said, another thing Daedone's description makes me think about is the possible peak sexual experiences of men and women - and men versus women in this regard. Some time ago I came across a book by Sandra Scantling and Sue Browder called Ordinary Women, Extraordinary Sex: Every Woman's Guide to Pleasure and Beyond. I was envious of the intense sexual experiences described by some of the women quoted in this book, as they sounded at points like mystical, out of body experiences. I've never experienced anything like that, and I wonder if it's a level or kind of pleasure that's only available to women. (Perhaps there are differences between the brains and/or nervous systems of men and women that determine this sort of thing.)Brent H.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-24035332130354640752012-01-03T12:11:30.010-08:002012-01-03T12:11:30.010-08:00Yeah...I do that all the time...the honey thing th...Yeah...I do that all the time...the honey thing that is...<br />But I'm a single bloke so ipso facto I suppose I don't do it all the time...I'm just saying...you know...umm....oh yeah...like Napoleon Dynamite...I got skills...and that's all you need to know...<br />Another scorchingly good piece of work you gone done...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-3204978076640813322012-01-03T11:29:47.854-08:002012-01-03T11:29:47.854-08:00Although Sweet Babou and I often don't have TI...Although Sweet Babou and I often don't have TIME for anything other than a quiche (that's what we say for 'quickie', we ask if the other would like some quiche after the kids are in bed), I'm always wrapped in a honey-blanket of "I am so glad I am with him". It sounds gag-me-precious and schmaltzy (it is) but it is the truth. I am so in love with my hubby even I think I am a nutjob about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-46522767804180319502012-01-03T10:38:41.067-08:002012-01-03T10:38:41.067-08:00Geez, I cannot believe how spoiled I am. It is ha...Geez, I cannot believe how spoiled I am. It is hard to describe it without resorting to the weird imagery, but yes, I get intense entire-body-and-mind sex... and it doesn't take two years to get me ready for it. It doesn't happen every time, but, unlike the author, I'm not disappointed when I just have awesome sex, rather than mind-blowing-body-consuming-soul-shattering sex. But yes, I certainly get that kind of sex, too, and "enjoy" is simply too mild a word for how I feel about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4339155460200866959.post-60086235871817916682012-01-03T10:24:58.063-08:002012-01-03T10:24:58.063-08:00Best post ever. And ultimately the most depressing...Best post ever. And ultimately the most depressing to read and realize... my best years, where only a few precious moments were like Nicole's description (only from a dude's POV) were before age 21. 20+ yrs later, it's galling and terminally depressing to know, I will never again experience such a thing. Rather than wonder WTH I did wrong to marry a woman who has utterly no concept of any of this stuff... I'll just go back to work and be another walking dead 40-something dude. *puts bag on head and shambles off*Just Jacknoreply@blogger.com